We constantly desire something better; it is what we are built for, we embody pure creativity. What we have to know is that there is always growth involved in manifesting intentions. When you are moving forward, obstacles appear on your path that resist your forward motion and that show you what you fear. The way you deal with them is through non-resistance. As long as you resist a situation it will persist; what ever you fight, fights back, and whatever you focus on expands. So if you are undisturbed by it, meaning you are not emotionally attached, it falls away by its own weight.